Tuesday, 12 June 2018

To a new home,new beginnings...

A lot transpired in past one year. Welcomed 2018 partying hard in our home. In true essence, this is "OUR" home!! Better part of last year was spent fighting over interior,furniture,color of rooms(so many walls is exhausting),decorative,wall hangings& even name plate!!! The fight itself was exhausting topped by shifting my huge load of existing furniture!!!

Anyway, I thoroughly enjoyed the phase. It felt like I'm finally settling in. I'm able to see the anchor.
Though was cooking for better part of last year and did try some of the recipes. Regular cooking does grows on one. New found absolute pleasure is baking though!! From chocolate cookies to cakes,baking has turned into one of my favorite stress-busters!! And nobody in family bakes like me!! yay!!!!

With the summer season,came across two amazing easy recipes: Mango Kulfi & Mango Cake.

Trust me,its easy to my level. Here you go:

The recipe of mango kulfi is from new found treasure trove of PeekNCook. There are a few recipes I have bookmarked & intend to try with the huge success of Mango Kulfi!!





The Mango Cake recipe is from quintessential favourite Tarla Dalal:




I generally bake at 170deg for 40 mins but for this one, I realised 180 would have been better. Took a lonnnggg time & was basically moist.

I intend to try a couple of other recipes with mango & keep the recipes safe in this blog!!

Wish me luck!! :)



Wednesday, 8 March 2017

Rumblings,pain & others...

As they life goes on,no matter what...I'm trying to cope with the loss,with the pain. The only thing that keeps hurting me is the in-sensitiveness of people. Or is it just me who is overtly emotional & thinks that people would be concerned for me as much as I am for them or their well-being. But it is not so...in general,people are jealous & bitchy. I'm not much of a show-off person and for me its hard. People who are pretentious & jealous,I intend to cut them off my life. But its difficult to believe that the pain I felt because of so-called family's in-sensitiveness is not shared by any. I understood, my pain,my loss belongs to me & me alone.

Some families are so strange that at certain times it feels like everything is a facade & every thing is associated with a rooted cause. Nothing truly seems heartfelt at times. Even if I try, I cant lie or I cant be double-faced like most others I see. This actually is contributing to my restlessness, my depression. I'm trying all I can to keep myself away from depression which comes anyway as a result of such abrupt changes & specially with me being very vulnerable. Specially when I see insensitivity of the person I least expect from. Somehow, I will have to turn back for the sake of my future & my sanity & I realize now is the best time.

Saturday, 7 January 2017

Baking fever: Chocolate cup cake with choclate chips

The love of cakes...The love for the smell of cake in the oven...the love of baking..winter being incomplete without the house smelling like cakes!! So, here I'm...putting my lame self at baking test...till now, the outcome(s) have been very encouraging,considering the reviews from my food-critic father in law. :D

For beginners in baking,here's the recipe for Chocolate cup cakes with chocolate chips:

Ingredients:

All Purpose Flour / Maida-1 cup
Cocoa-3 tblspn
Powdered Sugar- 3/4 cup
Baking powder-1 tsp
Vanilla-1 tsp
Milk- 1/2 cup / 125 ml
Egg-1
Oil- 1/2 cup/125 ml
Choclate Chips: As many as you want to :D

Method:
Preheat the oven to 180°C(360°F)..
Mix all the ingredients with with a hand mixer.
Spoon this in muffin cases & spread the choclate chips on top of each mould and bake for 20-30min or until the cakes are cooked.To check if the cake is cooked,just insert a toothpick inside the cake and if it comes out clean,then the cake is cooked.
 
Here is how it looked like:
 
 8 Cup cakes in total out of the mentiond measurements.
 

                               I also added cashew pieces with mix & topped it with chocolate chips.












Happy baking!!! :) :) :D :D :D





Wednesday, 7 December 2016

Lamahatta:A hamlet in the clouds

If you love mountains, then you would know the charm of sleepy little villages in the lap of mountains which stay hidden in clouds. Just not the beauty of the places, but the true gem in this places are the 'pahari' people. They will make you feel at home in no time. I find them far less complex & much much more friendly than people from the plain-land. Anyway, seeking a break from the cacophony of city life, we headed to Lamahatta,a small hamlet near Darjeeling for a weekend getaway. A 2 hrs drive from NJP, the place has been recently developed. A garden has been constructed & a small trek that leads to a small lake or "pokhri" at the top of a the hill.








There isnt much to do here,if you are looking for activities. You can just spend some idle,quality time with your dear ones or even touch base with yourself. The garden & the trek to teh hill-top is developed by the localites & is very well-maintained. The silence of the place,specially of the hill-top is a pleasure to the sore ears.

We stayed at the Everest-hut homestay and was hosted by the wonderfull Mr. Tashi Sherpa & his lovely wife, Sushila-ji. The moment you step in,it felt like we are being hosted by our friends.

The food was being cooked by Sushila-ji herself and what surprised me was the cleanliness of everything. They would go out of their ways & wait for us all the time so that they can serve us warm food. The simple lunch meal & the awesome pork curry for dinner will stay in my memories for a long time.





You can reach them at http://lamahattahomestay.com/ (9434865611) and book your stay a bit ahead. The no of rooms are limited by the time we went. We stayed at the couple's room, which was the corner most room & gave us the privacy we needed. The window in room, opened to the view of the hills with the townships of the  hills shining brightly in the evening. 


You can go for sight-seeing to nearby places like Delo, kalimpong, thakdah, tinchuley,etc. Though we decided to stay put & soak in the silence as much as we could.

For any other help, do let me know...I'll be more than happy to share any further information I have!! 
Happy Journey !! :)


100 days

How do you react when you are 100 days closer to what you have wanted for so long & then the next day its all gone? I feel hollow, feels like somebody turned me inside out. She was so close that I could feel her & then she left. I had to let her go. I could not bear to see her. He did. She might have looked like him...the way I always wanted, I would never know.No matter what or how I proclaim, I always wanted our kid to be like her father...his eyes,his nose,his dimples,his heart. And I'll bear the impressions of those two very tiny feet forever on my soul.(1st Dec)

Sunday, 28 August 2016

Beyond expectations

When something beyond expectation happens,what do we do?? Learn to live with it? Realize that nothing has changed? That all the while, the flimsy facade you have created, that you call your world is as flimsy as it sounds. Nothing actually changes may be.Specially, the way you feel for a person. No matter how much you try, you care....nothing is enough,nothing was. Or do you decide to quit? Tired of expecting & believing? How many years can a mountain exist,Before it is washed to the sea?
How many years can some people exist,Before they're allowed to be free?
How many times can a man turn his head,And pretend that he just doesn't see?

Saturday, 20 August 2016

Ebaar Aranye..."Jhargram Diaries"

Searching for offbeat locations for weekend trip, one of my friend came up with the idea of  making a trip to Jhargram & all of us agreed instantly. The place is coming up very fast and is constantly being featured in lots of travel groups but as yet it stays a little offbeat & less crowded. Jhargarm in itself has an illustrious history & is quite developed, thanks to Raja Narasingha Malla Deb who really had a big hand in the development of Jhargram. The moment our car found its way to the outskirts of Jhargram, a wave of green, complimented by the rainy season greeted us. The empty roads across the jungle in itself has a big calming effect. By the time we reached our stay, we were hungry for more of that!! We stayed at Kaushalya Heritage(9830634541), which is located just outside the hustle bustle of the Jhargram town & surrounded by forest.The hotel is very well built. I totally loved the wooden furniture's which gives it an old-school charm. But as is,it is a bit ill maintained.The bed-sheets were tainted & the blankets were so dusty,it almost gave me an allergy. But, the food was pretty nice though the service was a bit slow. I guess the staff is not accustomed yet to handle large groups of people. We booked 4 double bedrooms and fortunately one of us were upgraded to a suite because they dint have another double bed room. The suite was pretty big enough for all 9 of us to sit together & dance around!! Also, it came with a attached small room with another bed & dresser. This would be perfect as family room.




As soon as we finished our sumptuous lunch, we set out for soaking in more of Jhargram and its lush greenery. Our driver Sanjay Mahato(9547729095) is nice young guy with extremely reasonable rate. He directly took us to the Kanaka Durga Temple. It looks like a clearing in the forest,there are 2 temples in the premise & a little research told us that the old, almost at the verge of ruin temple building is the original one built in 1348 while the newer version of the temple was built in 1994 by a local activist. Unfortunately, we could not see the deity as the temple was closed, apparently it houses a golden durga idol hence the name "Kanak Durga". A little walk from the temple took us to this dulung river which gushed powered by the incessant rains we presumed. Surrounded by green,the place has its own charm and mysticism. All of us, really really liked the place and were happy to click a few selfies along the way. Oh almost forgot, the place is densely inhabited by monkeys who were ogling at us like we were trespassing on their territory.




Next we headed for the Jhargram Palace. Jhargram Palace is one of the prime attractions of that area.Wikipedia tells us, the dynasty of Jhargram Rajas' dated back to Mughal era. The most influential raja being Raja Narasinga Malla Deb who commissioned the building of the new palace,which dates back to 1931. We weren't allowed to enter the premises but the place looked very interesting & well maintained from the gates. Interestingly, WBTDC in collaboration with the present Raja has built an ecotourism resort right outside the main gates of the Palace. Apparently, a stay in this resorts can get you the permission to enter the palace premises.

Distraught, we decided to have some snacks and tea at the eco-resort's cafeteria. Although the servings were pretty good, the serving time left us disappointed. They took close to 1 hour to serve a simple order of tea and chicken pakoras.





Last place for the day was Medicinal Plants Garden in Kalaboni. It housed hundred of plants with medicinal properties, each with board listing its benefits. It was nice seeing some unfmiliar plants about which we have mostly read & surprising to see some of the plants we see and hear about everyday to have such heavy duty medicinal benefits. Its sad that they don't sell saplings of these plants which might bring in some revenue that can be used for the up-keep of the place. One thing which was noteworthy was, the cleanliness of the place. Minimalist but clean & well maintained is USP of the place.




After a night of fun adda dancing and debauchery, we set out early next morning,with a long list of places to visit. We started with, Gurrasini. It houses a small temple and small trek uphills takes you to a view point from where you can see Tarafeni river & an amazing snapshot of the surrounding hills. The trek, a tiny graveled trail with jungle on both side, took a toll on our city lungs & we were left panting & dehydrated by the time we reached the peak but the view refreshed our souls nonetheless. If you are running short of time then you can skip Gurrasini all together.Visiting gurrasini & not taking the trek will make it meaningless.







Next on the list was Ghagra Waterfalls. Located on the tarafeni river & surrounded by jungle on all sides, its a small hilly waterfall with a drop of few feets. On a pleasant cloudy day, you can just sit on the rocks & spend the entire day dipping your legs in the flowing waterfall or take a bath if you're feeling too hot and adventurous. 








Next up was a trip to the local zoo. Housing a few emus, monkeys, bears, deer and snakes, its seems more like a private collection than a govt maintained zoo. Though  there has been fresh paint all over the place but the security measures didn't look promising & the place can really use a make-over.

The last one for the day was Chilikagarh Palace. The premise open to the public, houses a few temples which were closed when we reached but looked like they were maintained and in use, along with a "bar-mahal" or outside house complimented with numerous small barrack inside the wall. The "bar-mahal" though is presently office of PWD doesn't seem to be well maintained. The smaller part of the palace which is still resided by the Raj family of Chilikagarh is well guarded by high walls is inaccessible to the outsiders. 





Came back to our stay, had a nice adda session followed by a sumptuous dinner and a good night's sleep. Next morning we set out for Kolkata with our heart and soul more than content. Though the weekend tour ended too soon but Jhargram did leave its mark on all of us & we plan to go over there again some time. If the political disturbances that kept Jhargram & Jongolmahal aloof for all these years can be solved, Jhargram has the potential to become a major tourist attraction for weekend trips, given its proximity from Kolkata (2hrs by train). We boarded Ispat Express from Howrah to Jhargarm & Steel Express on our way home. 

For any other help, do let me know...I'll be more than happy to share any further information I have!! 
Happy Journey !! :)